How to ask Her/Him out for the first time!

One of the most difficult tasks is to ask someone out. But you can’t afford to skip it because the results are amazing. So let me help you with few tricks. I am not a dating expert and we not recommending any online dating services (although, few of them are really good to give a try). But still, I helped hundreds of friend and following my global-approach concept, I am trying to help you out.

“Would you like to go out with me?” or “Can I ask you out?” are the most preferred lines but trust me, they are old enough to work until the person is really having a crush on you. Well, in that condition you can try these lines. But I prefer to play blind, and I am sure, so do you. While using these lines, be ready to hear, “No, I am not free”. So from next time onwards you not going to ask anyone out easily or you never dare enough to ask the person again.

First of all, try to find out his/her areas of interests or try some common one’s like cold coffee, movie, shopping (not general, but stuffs like bags, perfumes or watches) etc. now use something like these lines:

“You mind if you can spare some time and help me out with selecting watches for me. I am really bad at it”.

And this is the trick, while asking him/her to help you; you have indirectly made her realize that you admire his/her taste, class and style. This trick can be used with anyone. It gives you a reason and few people always look for a reason.

Don’t ask him/her out on weekends or evenings, rather prefer morning, noon or early evenings for the first time. Because earlier discussed are time slots for a formal dating. Indirectly let him/her know that you value him/her and interested but don’t surrender yourself by asking her/him again and again. Prefer formal invitations like one discussed above or a quick coffee in between some work. Don’t ever miss a chance to ask him/her for a quick coffee whenever you two coincidentally meet in a market or a public place. Wait for her/him to ask:

“What are you doing here” or “where you going from here” or something like this and use these lines:

“Planning to check out the near by book store. You want to catch up for a quick coffee?”

Always make it short for the first time while using quick word and try to make it longer while being on that quick plan by adding few more creative plans. Try to ask him/her out for the first time face-to-face. Even phone or chat is not a bad idea but make it unique, stylist and genuine. Asking without reason might look odd.

So, try out these tricks and see the results yourself. Please don’t forget to give your comments. In tomorrow’s blog, let’s see how to plan and manage your first date. Keep on telling more topics for future. Should we start with online business or how to earn from home or fashion or latest technology or gaming…..just let me know your opinions.